MyMotherHustle Story - Emily Souder
“But, after accepting the journey, I feel that I’m coming more into being my authentic self since becoming a mother, and that is exciting.” Here’s Emily Souder’s #MyMotherHustle Story.

When and how did you begin your business? Give us the backstory!

My son was born in November of 2014. I was blindsided by the amount of anxiety and panic I felt after he was born –  what does that noise mean? Is he eating enough? How do I do this mothering thing?? I started feeling better with help and time, but this experience ultimately inspired me to identify my favorite population to do therapy with.

In the fall of 2015, I was talking with my husband about my career and was able to finally say that I knew what I wanted to do! I wanted to work with new moms! Ta-da! That population included pregnant women as well, especially since the identify shift starts to occur before baby makes its appearance. I knew a unique way to reach mamas would be to offer therapy in their homes.

Nesting Space Therapy was born in early 2016, and I started putting energy into it on the side of mothering and working part-time as a therapist for more general anxiety and depression. I completed a certificate training in maternal mental health and started reading A LOT. Getting pregnant with my daughter and knowing that I wanted to be mostly at home with my kids after she was born made business generation take on a slower pace than I had originally anticipated, but it’s going nonetheless!

Since my daughter was born, I also felt the need to stay involved and keep giving moms tools to use, and that’s why I published Birth Story Brave. It’s a guide for moms (not just those who have had challenges) to reflect on their childbirth experiences. It’s specifically designed to be open to vaginal AND c-section births – I had both c-section and VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean) births and know that these birth stories are equally valid and can need space for processing!

Tell us a little about your family.

I’m married to my best friend. My husband and I are continuing to find new ways that we complement each other, even throughout challenges we come across. We have two littles: a nine-month-old daughter and three-year-old son, both of whom keep us learning constantly. And we love their snuggles!

What were the biggest challenges you’ve faced or lessons you’ve learned since starting your business?

The whole “work-life balance” concept has been challenging. I’ve felt pulled to be the best mother AND the best business owner, and that has been hard. It is sometimes easy to fall into a place of judging myself for not being able to do all the things! I’m lucky, though, that I’ve had a great deal of flexibility in how much I work, especially since my daughter was born.

Recently, I read about the idea of “work-life integration” in Laura C. Cannon’s book, The Conscious Entrepreneur. That resonated with me. It can be fruitless (and even damaging) to separate our work life and personal life as far as the self we present, so we can work on finding ways for these two things to work together. And, it’s still possible and important to set boundaries between work time and family time.

How does motherhood affect or influence your business? Your creativity? 

Motherhood both ignites AND stifles my creativity! It’s so funny how that happens. I might find myself super inspired in one moment (the ideas sparked by spending time with little humans can be endless!) and yet my daughter wants to be held or my son needs a diaper change. Obviously, the mom tasks take precedence in those moments, and that can be frustrating. But, after accepting the journey, I feel that I’m coming more into being my authentic self since becoming a mother, and that is exciting.

What advice would you give to a brand-new creative entrepreneur? 

Be patient, and be kind to yourself. Set priorities. Be realistic. REALLY realistic. Know that you are enough.

What advice would you give to a brand-new mom? 

This is a really hard transition. There will be times when you don’t feel like yourself, and that can feel scary and can even make us feel angry. You will get back to yourself, but it can be a journey. And it’s okay, even expected, to need help.

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MotherHustle Panelist Emily Souder is a life coach, mama, and author in Maryland. She helps mom entrepreneurs who are feeling lost in the demands of motherhood and out of touch with themselves achieve clarity, focus, and empowerment using intuition-informed guidance and skill building. She is married to her best friend (so cheesy, but so true!), has two littles (ages 1 and 3), and is on her own path of rocking her authenticity. Follow her on Facebook at Nesting Space LLC and on Instagram at Nesting_Space. Make sure to check out her book here.

Photo Credit Stevie T Photography


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