“If you ever want to know what a mom’s mind is like, imagine a browser with 3,427 tabs open. All. The. Time.”
We’ve all seen (and probably laughed at) the meme with the above quote — because things are funnier when they’re true, right?
(Literally. I just counted, and right now I have three browser windows up on my computer with 31 tabs open. They’re all things that need my attention. And that doesn’t count the virtual tabs that are right now open in my brain.)
But why is that? Why does something like this resonate with so many of us?
Business strategies. Accounting. Client work. Future planning. Teams. Systems. Marketing. Visibility. … And that’s just on the business side. Add in the school schedules, kids activities, meal planning, household chores, holiday shopping and daily minutiae of the motherhood side — and the thinking about ourselves self-care side — and the details are laughable.
Earlier this year, a French comic artist perfectly illustrated this phenomenon in an explanation that has since gone viral. “You Should’ve Asked” talks about the weight of being in charge of the details of a home, on top of all of our other responsibilities as women and moms. She says:
“When a man expects his partner to ask him to do things, he’s viewing her as the manager of household chores. So it’s up to her to know what needs to be done and when. The problem with that is that planning and organizing is already a full-time job.”
Which is why, this month on MotherHustle, we’re going to be exploring FOCUS: what it means, what we need, and how to break through the Mental Load to achieve it.
Some of the things we will be exploring:
We want to hear from you, mama. We want to know how you find your focus — and in turn, find your fulfillment. So join in on Facebook, or Instagram — or email me to chat about it — and let’s focus on this together.
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